Let us understand what this is all about. Our physical third tier bodies are operated by our physical second tier so called spirit bodies and this is done in close contact with independent spirit guides all advanced and committed to helping us. We merely have to ask or learn how to ask. That is actually the difficult part. After all you also have to ask for the right things or support will wane.
My point, whatever we choose to call all this, is that it is all physically real and completely necessary for us to function as living people.
For that reason the so called 'Law of Attraction' happens to be a process that teaches you how to access this support. Many of us need to learn this. I personally lived by asking for nothing and expecting nothing and find it amazingly hard to ask for anything not supportive of my life's work.
So go for it and remember that you are working with the best you can be. Forgive everything as well and treat it all as an experience learned.