If
this were a test, then I have nailed it nine for nine. Yet it is the
patience that stands out. Our life is transient yet our best is
sifted through the maze of short term needs. If truth advances it is
often when abject failure has chased all else from the field. In the
face of that we must be patient and return to the fray again and
again.
It is
my doom to speak wisely to the future and place ideas out there for
others to absorb, then forget and then remember in the face of need.
I know today how to create heaven on earth in fine and excellent
detail and those details are scattered throughout this blog to be
picked up randomly and to trigger self motivated action somewhere and
sometime.
If
you reject that idea, then set this all aside and forget that you
ever read these words. It is not necessary for you to remember yet.
9 Signs You’re an
Old Soul
July 31, 2014
WakingTimes
Aletheia Luna
How old would you be
if you didn’t know how old you are? ~ Satchel Paige
There is a special
kind of person in our world who finds himself alone and isolated,
almost since birth.
His solitary existence
isn’t from a preference or an antisocial temperament – he is
simply old. Old in heart, old in mind and old in soul, this person
is an old soul who finds his outlook on life vastly different and
more matured than those around him. As a result, the old
soul lives his life internally, walking his own solitary
path while the rest around him flock to follow another. Perhaps
you’ve experienced this in your own life, or have witnessed it in
another person? If so, this article is dedicated to you, in hopes
that you will come to define yourself, or understand another better.
The “Old Soul”
Robert Frost, Eckhart
Tolle and even Nick Jonas have been called them.
Perhaps even you have? I did. Like many of them, this self discovery
was made upon meeting Sol, who told me about his childhood
as a precocious, intelligent boy who would befriend the teachers
instead of the students, just because they were too
different from him. As he related his inability to find interest in
and connection to the people his age, I discovered that I felt the
same, and still do.
If you have not yet
discovered whether you’re an old soul, read some of the revealing
signs below.
#1 You tend to
be a solitary loner.
Because old souls are
disinterested in the pursuits and interests of the people in their
age groups, they find it dissatisfying to make friends with people
they find it hard to relate to. This is one of the major problems
Old Souls experience. The result is … old souls tend to find
themselves alone a lot of the time. People just don’t cut it for
them.
#2 You love
knowledge, wisdom and truth.
Yep … this seems a
little grandiose and overly noble, but the old soul finds himself
naturally gravitating towards the intellectual side of life.
Old souls inherently understand that knowledge is power, wisdom is
happiness and truth is freedom, so why not seek after
those things? These pursuits are more meaningful to them than reading
up on the latest gossip about Snooki’s latest boyfriend, or the
latest football scores.
#3 You’re
spiritually inclined.
More emotional old
souls tend to have sensitive and spiritual natures. Overcoming the
confines of the ego, seeking enlightenment and fostering love and
peace are the main pursuits of these young-in-body Mother Teresa’s.
To them it seems the wisest, most fulfilling use of time.
#4 You understand
the transience of life.
Old souls are
frequently plagued with reminders of not only their own mortality,
but that of everything and everyone around them. This makes the old
soul wary and at times withdrawn, but wisely dictates the
way they live their lives.
#5 You’re
thoughtful and introspective.
Old souls tend to
think a lot … about everything. Their ability to reflect and
learn from their actions and those of others is their greatest
teacher in life. One reason why old souls feel so old at heart
is because they have learnt so many lessons through their own thought
processes, and possess so much insight into life situations from
their ability to quietly and carefully observe what if going on
around them.
#6 You see the bigger
picture.
Rarely do old souls
get lost in the superficial details of getting useless degrees, job
promotions, boob jobs and bigger TV’s. Old souls have the tendency
to look at life from a birds eye view, seeing what is the most wise
and meaningful way to approach life. When confronted with issues,
old souls tend to see them as temporary and passing pains that merely
serve to increase the amount of joy felt in the future.
Consequently, old souls tend to have placid, stable natures as a
result of their approach to life.
#7 You aren’t
materialistic.
Wealth, status, fame,
and the latest version of iPhone … they just bore old souls. The
old soul doesn’t see the purpose of pursuing things that can be
easily taken away from them. Additionally, old souls have little
time and interest for the short-lived things in life, as they bring
little meaning or long lasting fulfillment for them.
#8 You were a
strange, socially maladaptive kid.
This is not always the
case, but many old souls exhibit odd signs of maturity at young ages.
Often, these children are labelled as being “precocious”,
“introverted”, or “rebellious“, failing to fit into the
mainstream behaviors. Usually, these children are extremely
inquisitive and intelligent, seeing the purposelessness of many
things their teachers, parents and peers say and do, and either
passively or aggressively resisting them. If you can talk to your
child like he/she’s an adult – you’ve probably got an old soul
on your hands.
#9 You just “feel”
old.
Before putting a name
to what I felt, I experienced certain sensations of simply being an
“old person” inside. The feelings that accompany being an old
soul are usually: a feeling of world wariness, mental tiredness,
watchful patience, and detached calmness. Unfortunately, this can
often be perceived as being aloof and cold, which is only one of many
Old Soul Myths.
Just as some old
people describe themselves as being “young at heart”, so too can
young people be “old at heart”.
Aletheia Luna
”Introvert”,
“Empath”, “Ginger”, I go by many names. Above all, I’m a
disciple of this vast, complex and mysterious thing we call life. In
other words: I’m a guinea pig of existence – just like you. In
this blog, I seek to share with you what I’ve discovered on my own
personal journey of awareness, understanding and acceptance of myself
and those around me.
...not your doom, your gift!
ReplyDeleteI have been following your blog for years and have seen you evolve, as we all have.
Thank you Arclein!
Another old soul...